This past Sunday my church started a new summer series about unity. To open up the message, our pastor asked us a few questions to get us thinking, one of those questions being, “How does your presence affect your environment?” I loved this question, as this is something I tend to think about, especially when I’m coaching or in a position to really impact the lives of those around me. I have written before about how I don’t always know the effect I can really have on people, and that message went right along with it. Your presence in any environment has the opportunity to help others. You may help someone else learn something new, help them see a different perspective or just help create a bond that could have a big impact in the future. When I think about this question and my presence, I also think about gratitude. I interpreted this message as a reminder to not take anything for granted. To be intentional in conversations with whomever it may be, and listen to others.
My freshmen year, I had a professor who changed my life by teaching me several things that go with environmental management but are also helpful in everyday life. One of those skills was active listening. Learning to open your mind up to what someone else might be thinking, whether you agree with it or not and keeping negative tones and sayings (no, wrong, etc.) out of conversation, especially when brainstorming with your peers is something that is rare to find in all ages. While you should stand firm in your beliefs, don’t let your presence be one of negativity. Learn to be approachable and understanding. Show grace and mercy for others, no matter your environment. These traits are not something we are born with, but we can work on them everyday. How does your presence affect your environment? How can we improve the environment we are in? Keep these questions in mind when evaluating yourself in your journey.