In most of my columns, we talk about our journeys of self development and growth. I consistently write about ways to expand our horizons and evolve as individuals. For this week’s column, I wanted to focus on something that isn’t as easy to grasp; the concept of being at a standstill. There are several moments in life where we feel like we aren’t getting any better, that we aren’t growing or developing. Our life doesn’t always go upwards. There are several plateaus and even some downward movement. I am in one of those phases right now where it feels like I’m almost going backwards. But you know what? It’s okay to feel that way. Yes, we want to grow and develop, but we also have to be realistic with ourselves and understand that there will be several days where the growth doesn’t seem to be there, where we long for things we once had, whether that be relationships, lifestyles or even missing home a little extra.
Even if you feel like you aren’t growing, don’t give up. Not everyday is going to feel the best, but there is always a positive; it may just be a little harder to see. Keep working through those rough days. We will get back on track as quickly as we can.